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There is no way to soften what the country saw at the advance poll–long lines, confusion, elderly voters collapsing in the heat, polls running hours past closing, people leaving without voting. And questions about whether the system itself is being managed tightly enough.

That is not a good look days before a general election.

At the center of this moment is Parliamentary Commissioner Harrison Thompson.

This is no longer about complaints from the Free National Movement. What happened at the advance polls cut across party lines. Even voices within the governing side acknowledged the strain.

The job of the Parliamentary Registration Department is to run a process that is efficient, fair, trusted, and credible.

Right now, that credibility has taken a hit.

The advance poll exposed something uncomfortable. This was not an unpredictable surge—advance voters were registered ahead of time, the numbers were known and the pressure points should have been anticipated.

When a controlled environment struggles, it raises legitimate concerns about what happens when the full electorate shows up on May 12.

That is the test now facing Thompson.

Fix the flow of voters, expand capacity where it is clearly insufficient, eliminate confusion at polling sites, ensure that voter lists are accurate and reconciled, communicate clearly and frequently so that the public understands what is being corrected, and restore confidence in the system.

Elections are not only about counting ballots, but they are also about whether people believe the process works. Once that belief starts to erode, the consequences extend far beyond one election cycle.

There is still time to get this right, but the margin for error is gone.

The coronavirus pandemic has caused couples to spend more time together than ever before. While quality time is beneficial, it may present challenges since too much time together may become overwhelming due to lack of space and little individual time for oneself.

In fact, attorneys have expressed that marriages in the Bahamas are dissolving during this time, as they have received numerous calls to assist in divorce cases.

QC Wayne Munroe said spending too much time together is the quickest way to get a divorce, as little things become annoying. Munroe said he expects more divorces as lockdown continues.

While Munroe may have a bleak outlook on marriages, Therapist and Relationship Consultant Harrison Thompson says your marriage can survive the lockdown.

Here’s how:

1. Carve out Individual time

We all need to ensure that while spending more time together, we don’t run into ‘proximity fatigue’ where we’re tired of seeing our partner when we usually don’t. Don’t get offended by space either but use it to refresh so that you can come back together, reinvigorated.

2. Allow your partner to have feelings

Sometimes we don’t let our partner feel and go through their emotions without judging them for it. Feelings are meant to be felt and when we don’t do that, problems get worse and so do our responses to them.

3. Be silly

Only be an adult when absolutely necessary. Sometimes we take in too much information that overwhelms us and makes us anxious. Being silly with one another is a great way to break tensions and return to a lighter mood.