They entered the world together. Now one twin is asking for help saying goodbye.
For Tameka Barrat, losing her twin sister was losing the person she describes as her “other half.”
Now, as she tries to come to terms with a loss that came suddenly and tragically, Barrat is asking the Bahamian community for help giving her sister, Toniquea Gilot, a final farewell.
“Help us lay our beloved twin sister, Toniquea Gilot, to rest,” Barrat wrote in a GoFundMe campaign launched on Monday.
Toniquea was among 10 people killed in a plane crash on July 10, Bahamas Independence Day, while travelling from Nassau to San Andros.
She was also a singer with the Pond Band, bringing music and her own presence to the lives of those who knew her.
For her twin, however, Toniquea was family and her other half.
And now Tameka is facing the painful reality of having to bury her.
“Losing my twin sister is a pain that is difficult to put into words,” Barrat wrote. “She was not only my sister, but my other half, and her sudden passing has left an enormous hole in our family.”
The family is now trying to raise $7,000 to help cover the costs associated with Toniquea’s burial, including a burial plot, casket, funeral arrangements and other necessary expenses.
For a family already dealing with the shock of losing a loved one in such a sudden way, the financial burden can make an already painful period even harder.
Barrat is therefore turning to relatives, friends, strangers and anyone willing to help.
“We are reaching out to family, friends, and anyone who feels moved to help us during this incredibly difficult time,” she said.
“Anything will help,” she later wrote on Facebook.
It is a small request carrying a heavy weight. The family wants to give Toniquea the peaceful and dignified farewell they believe she deserves.
“Forever loved and forever missed, forever my twin,” Tameka wrote.
Click here to help: GoFundMe
