Anthony Thompson fought back tears as he stood in Highway Church of God Temple on Saturday, saying goodbye to the little girl who had given his life a new purpose.
To the congregation, she was Bertrica “Trica” Brown, one of the five young lives lost in last month’s devastating Shirley Street crash.
To Anthony, she was the little sister he became a father to.
Long before Trica dreamed of college and athletics, Anthony made a decision that would change both of their lives. At just 27 years old, he stepped into a role he had never expected to carry.
He would raise her and would become the parent she needed after the loss of their biological parents.
“I didn’t know how to raise a teenage girl,” he admitted. “There were times I thought I would give up. But Trica made it easier than he ever imagined.
“I thank God she wasn’t someone who gave me attitude or really stressed me out. She wasn’t rebellious.”
Still, love required sacrifice. Anthony remembers days when there simply wasn’t enough money for both of them.
“There were times when I did not eat,” he said. “I’d think, ‘Man, I’m only 27. I’m trying to feed a whole child, and I need to eat too.’ I felt like I grew up so quickly.”
He quietly carried the burden, trusting God to provide.
His own dreams took a back seat so hers could grow.
Knowing how much she loved sports, Anthony threw himself into helping her succeed. Already involved in basketball, volleyball and flag football, he even started a track club because Trica wanted to become a thrower.
Her dreams became his mission.
As she grew older, Anthony found himself balancing two identities that often collided.
“There were times being her brother and being her father was clashing,” he said.
“Trica was very clingy. I wasn’t that kind of person. Because of her, I had to sacrifice the way I am. I had to break down.”
On his 30th birthday, Anthony prayed a prayer he says changed his heart.
“Lord, I give her back to You. You gave me her as a responsibility, and I trust You. Show me everything You have for her.”
Even when Anthony could not afford private school tuition for months at a time, doors kept opening.
“There were times I put her in private school and couldn’t pay the fees,” he recalled. “But I thank God for the favor He placed on her life.”
Eventually, Trica earned a partial scholarship to attend college.
Anthony had spent years worrying about how he would provide for her future. It seemed God was doing what he no longer could.
He was ready to make one more sacrifice. “I was willing to sacrifice a few more years all over again,” he said.
He never got the chance. Instead, he found himself standing before her casket.
As he reflected on raising Trica, Anthony acknowledged that one of their greatest challenges had been helping her understand why God had chosen him and his wife to become her parents.
“It was difficult for her to understand that God placed a mother and father in her life after her biological parents died,” he said. “But God gave me the patience. At first, I didn’t have it.”
The dreams they had planned together remain unfinished. But Anthony says he has found peace in one truth.
“Trica was safe. I watched her grow up. And I thank God that I can rest knowing she knew the Lord.”
Yet even faith has not silenced the ache.
“I am okay with what God is doing,” he said softly. “But my emotions… my feelings… they just won’t leave me alone.”


































